Sometimes I get puzzled. I puzzle myself, others just add to my already cluttered mind. Why is it that we try so hard to understand others? All we can do is be ourselves, nothing more; yet we continue trying to decifer the minds of others, hoping for some sort of incite into what they're thinking. All this is doing is confusing us. It's important to learn to step back and take a deep breath; make sure that we aren't trying to adjust ourselves to win someone else's focus. We are all unique individuals and should be appreciated for that alone. It takes time and energy to figure us out. Trying to do this too fast often results in a negative outcome, but we do it anyway.