Am I overly forgiving? Sometimes I get the impression I'm being scolded for giving people the benifit of the doubt. I wish those who scolded me would realise they get the same treatment sometimes. There have been times when I've not been myself; I wouldn't want someone to decide that no one should have even the time of day for me because of things I've done at those times. "Life ain't easy." We have to respect the warm hearts of others, and understand that they have good intentions, perhaps not the same as our intentions, but good just the same.